How do I ask my partner to wear a condom?

381 views  March 18, 2019

Till date I am on pills and we are never used to wearing condoms. Now I don't want to take pills anymore and want my partner to use a condom. He once told me that he didn't like condoms. 

I am worried he might leave me if I force him to wear a condom.

Well, you are aiming for the right thing. One thing you should remember is that you are only using birth control pills. But it is not going to give you any protection against STDs. You both may be in a monogamous relationship, but still unprotected sex always comes with the risk of STDs.

Here is what you can do!

When you both are in bed next time, wait till he is super charged and when he is thoroughly aroused and at the time of removing your panties, you stop him and say that you prefer to use a condom and highlight the fact that you stand a greater risk of acquiring STDs.

He might say yes to your proposal and say, we shall use a condom from next time and try to do without a condom.

That is when you can hand him over the condom pack and tell him that you bought for 'just in case' situation. You can them try and persuade him to wear by telling him that you want to experience what is actually feels to have him inside with a condom on.

If somehow, things don't work out during the first time; try it next time, exactly in the same scenario as mentioned. You need to get the timing right. You need to make him clearly understand that you are very particular about using a condom for safety reasons.

If required, you can be little assertive and even pull your pants up and refuse to oblige if he refuses to wear the condom. This could be your final reaction. But you should make him understand clearly that no-condom-means-no-sex rule, he might try to take advantage of your gullibility. Remember, unless you make your intentions clear, you may not get what you want.

Open conversation is important for a good sex life. After all, it is your body and only when you are in sound health, you will be able to enjoy sex with your partner.

 

So, make him wear a condom soon and enjoy a safe and happy sex.


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