When you know your relationship with your sweet heart is nicely building up and you both are having several playful moments, then it is natural for you to expect that special moment to happen sooner or later. You may be wondering what to do during your first kiss? What to expect and how to react? How long will it last? What if she doesn't like? Should I use my tongue?

We understand your concerns and it is natural for you to think in the above lines. Hence, we give below what to expect and what not to expect.

More spontaneous, better it is

For most people, their first kiss happens spontaneously. If you are planning to make your first kiss a picture perfect moment, then you could be wrong. First kiss may happen when you least expect it and the more unpredictable it gets, better it is for you. How much ever you plan, your first kiss may not happen exactly the way you planned. Your first kiss may happen at a party, in the bus, at your backyard or during a winter ride or during a walk along the lake or at any unpredictable location. It could happen in a flash and when you least expect it. So, don't expect it and allow it to happen spontaneously.

Nervousness is common

How much ever prepared you can be, you would have even rehearsed your movements, still your first kissing moment is going to be nervous and this applies to all universally. The moment when you lock your lips with your sweet heart, your mind is sure to blank and you are sure to experience butterflies in your stomach the moment you lean in to plant your first kiss.

Your sweet heart may not reciprocate immediately

If you make the first daring move and kiss your partner, he or she may be dazed and it may take some time for them to come to terms with the enormity of the situation. Don't take it as a sign of denial. He or she may be surprisingly stunned and you may have to plant a gentle kiss again to ease the situation and continue again with confidence.

Head or nose bumping is common

If you happen to bump noses or dash your head with your sweet heart while leaning to kiss, don't worry. You both are not alone. It could happen if either of you come in too fast leading to a romantic nose bump or funny forehead dash. Nose bumps can happen when both partners tilt their heads the same way. A forehead bump could be on the cards if both the guy and the girl approach each other with downward looking faces. Either way, treat it as a something funny that just made your first kiss even more playful.

Expect a soft and tender one

Knowing your partner well, you can expect your first kiss to be a soft and tender one. Generally first kisses are not ravaging ones as you both are in the early stages of your relationship and you both won't be comfortable to start off with great momentum.

It gets over quickly

In most cases first kisses gets over quickly and you don't expect a full blown lip lock during the first time. Even if it lasts for a couple of seconds, the moment will be etched in your mind forever and that's the beauty of it.

Unlike in movies which show hero and heroines kissing slowly and romantically for a long time don't happen in real life. A short, soft and tender kiss on the lips is what you can expect to happen for the first time. Don't be disheartened when the first kiss gets over too soon.

No hard biting and no need to worry about pain

Don’t expect your partner to bite on your lips during the first kiss. The first kiss is always an act of discovery and marks the opening of a beautiful relationship between a boy and a girl. Unless your partner is a hard jerk, you don't get him to bite you on the very first occasion. There is no need to worry about whether it will hurt if your partner bites, because chances of such happenings are very thin.

Expect both of you go giggle and laugh aftermath

You can expect your partner to giggle and laugh along with you soon after the first kiss as it involves lot of emotions, pulsating heart beats, nervousness and extraordinary happiness. The sheet excitement of the moment may leave you giggling as you both would feel relieved as your hearts may fill with joy of romantic feelings.

Tongue may play spoilsport

The involvement of tongue is practically none during the first kiss. When you expect your partner to venture out his or her tongue, then the first kiss may not be as good as expected. Using tongue and licking may be a natural extension to happen after both of you had the tender touch on the lips and eager to explore further.

Avoid Expectations

Let the first kiss happen naturally and allow it to go with the flow. The more you expect the more it is going to make you anxious and nervous. When you become too anxious, you may not enjoy the moment and you could miss the greatest moment of your life.

Any amount of practice and rehearsal will not going to work as first kisses never go according to plan and it gets best only when it happens spontaneously and naturally. You should have the heart to allow the moment to take its own twist and turns and you should never drown yourself in the sea of expectations with regard to your first kiss.

The last but not the least of advice forget the expectation and enjoy the kiss thoroughly and allow it to happen naturally and that way you can enjoy your first kiss and make it memorable.

Have a nice one, enjoy!

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