How to use a Vibrator for Intense Orgasm?

Though there are many women in India are using vibrators, sadly, not many are not aware about the correct ways to use it. Vibrator can be used to achieve intense orgasms, but it needs to be used properly, as per recommended ways.

For those who have not used vibrator, they are seriously missing out a lot of pleasure and the ultimate experience of intense orgasms. Vibrator can be used as a masturbating tool and also a sexual tool along with your partner for achieving extreme pleasure and exhilarating orgasms.

This article will provide a step-by-step guidance regarding how to use a vibrator to achieve intense orgasms. You can try all of them and figure out which one works best for you and then stick to it. As preferences vary from person to person. Let us see them in detail.

1. VIBRATOR FOREPLAY

Vibrator foreplay is something that is similar to physical foreplay. This is allowing your body to get used to the vibrations of the vibrator.

Switch on the vibrator and run it over the most sensitive zones of your body. You can run it over your breasts, nipples and inside of your thigh area slowly. If you want to run it over your neck, lips, stomach and even the armpit.

Whichever gives you sensational feeling, you can run the vibrator over it and feel the sensation. When you run it slowly and rhythmically, you will begin to feel aroused. When the feeling of arousal begins to grip your body, run the vibrator on your thighs and areas around your vagina. Don’t ever touch your vagina directly at this stage.

Run it outside your labia and above your clitoris for some time. Wait until your body will cry more of direct vaginal contact.

2. GENTLE TEASING

Now, you can focus directly on your vagina, but making a very light contact with it directly. Start by running the tip of your vibrator to the bottom of your vagina and drag it upwards slowly towards the clitoris.

When you reach the top of your vagina, slowly run it back down. It is like making a circular motion along your vaginal area without making a direct contact over your vagina.

As you make circular motion over the vagina, your vagina will cry for more direct and intense contact. You will be tempted to run it over your vagina. But you need to maintain a ‘feather-light’ touch as long as possible and increase your arousal level to a great extent. 

3. CLITORAL FOCUS

Clitoral stimulation can give unbelievably intense arousal. Many women require clitoral stimulation to achieve orgasm. Now, it’s time to use the vibrator over your clitoris.

Place the tip of your vibrator over your clitoris and apply direct pressure over it. In addition to placing the vibrator directly over your clitoris, you can also

-     Push the tip of your vibrator to any specific portion of your clit

-     Rub the vibrator on the front and back side of your clitoris

-     Run the vibrator in circular motion over your clit slowly or intensely

-     Tease your clitoris by applying gentle pressure over and then enjoy the stimulation.

You can experiment with different ways of giving pleasure to yourself by exploring the area around your clitoris.

You need to find that specific portion of clitoris which can give you extreme pleasure using the vibrator. This can be used both for masturbation and enjoying intimacy with your partner.

4. CLITORAL HOOD

Though clitoris is one of the most erogenous zones of a woman’s body, not many woman can handle direct clitoral stimulation as they find it too intense and some women find direct clitoral stimulation little painful.

If you are finding it difficult to handle direct clitoral stimulation, don’t worry, you are not alone. You can use the clitoral hood instead. Clitoral hood is the small flap like skin that covers your clitoris.

You can run your vibrator on the clitoral hood and this way your vibrations may feel less intense and you will be able to enjoy it thoroughly.

5. COMING IN FROM BELOW

Stroking from below is one of the universally-popular technique, that women across the world resort to this to enjoy intense pleasure. This technique allows women to stimulate entire outer portion of the vagina using the vibrator.

The vibrator needs to be brought from below and you can stroke the entire length of the vagina using the tip of the vibrator. As you press the tip of your vibrator over the labia, the bottom portion of the vibrator can stroke the lower part of your vagina.

You can keep the vibrator in position by squeezing your legs together so that you can enjoy. You need to run the vibrator along the vagina and find out the right position that gives you extraordinary pleasure.

6. CUM INSIDE

After spending sufficient amount of time stimulating areas outside your vagina, now you can explore highly sensual areas inside your vagina. For this, it is better to have a vibrator that is penis shaped so that you can take it inside your vagina quite easily.

It is recommended to use a lubrication as it will make things easier for you. Apply lubrication over the top portion of the vibrator and slowly push it inside your vagina.

You will find extreme pleasure even when the vibrator sits inside the vagina. When the vibrator rubs the highly sensual walls of your already wet vagina, it can give you enormous pleasure.

Simply leaving your vibrator to sit inside your vagina can be very pleasurable, but you’ll find it much more enjoyable when you move it inside and stimulate most sensitive portions inside your vagina, particularly your G-spot and Skene’s gland area along with your A Spot, which can cause orgasm.

Experiment with the pressure you apply, the intensity of the vibrations and different areas inside your vagina to discover what feels most intense.

If you are using a penis shaped vibrator, then it can get all the more easier and you can enjoy earth-shattering, neighbor-waking orgasms for sure.

7. ADD YOUR FINGERS TO THE MIX

Using your fingers along the way is the most sensible thing you can do to experience some intense pleasure. Just because you are using a vibrator doesn’t mean that you can’t also use your fingers.

In fact, using your fingers can only adds more pleasure to the mix. Use your fingers of one hand to stimulate your G-spot, while using the vibrator simultaneously using the other hand to stimulate your clitoris.

You can switch hands and use it to stimulate your clit and vice versa. You can keep repeating and experimenting using your hands and vibrator. You can do whatever feels good.

The idea is to use both your fingers and vibrators to experience heightened pleasure.

8. USE YOUR VIBRATOR FOR BETTER SEX

Remember, vibrators are not meant only for self-pleasure. It is sometimes referred to as ‘marital aids’ which can be used by both men and women during normal sexual activity to experience more pleasure.

There is nothing unnatural about using a vibrator during lovemaking. Couples who know how to use a vibrator during their lovemaking can enjoy more pleasure.

Many women who find it difficult to reach orgasm, have reported to have experienced orgasm quite easily by using vibrators. For such women, her male partner can use vibrators to give them orgasm.

Irrespective of effective or ineffective positions, women can enjoy thorough orgasm when they bring vibrators into their sex life.

Not only men can use vibrator over their partner, women too can use vibrator on him during sex. Vibrators can be used over the penis, balls, perineum (area of rough skin between testicles and anus) or even on his anus.

There is a misconception among men, that when a man uses vibrator during sex, he is incapable of giving orgasm to his lover. When men begin to use vibrators freely, they can give more pleasure to their partners, and women will not say NO and are going to love their man even more.

This is plain insecure feeling that men need to let go. On part of women, if your man feels offended or disapproves or seems distressed at your suggestion of using a vibrator, then you just need to reassure him and make him understand that it is an attempt at trying something new in bed and you are not replacing him at any cost.

9. DURING BLOW JOBS & HAND JOBS

Using vibrator during your sexual activity with your partner is the best thing that a woman can do.

Do you know that you can also use a vibrator during a blow job or hand job?

Yes, you can. We will show you how.

-     You can gently run the vibrator along the shaft of his penis and then over the head of his penis and see his reaction. He will sure going to enjoy it as he wouldn’t have experienced such vibrations over his organ.

-     Run the vibrator over his testicles while giving him a blow job or a hand job. You can run the vibrator in circular motion and caress them for a while after giving him vibrations.

-     Every man’s perineum (the small portion between testicles and anus) is an incredibly sensitive portion. When you press the vibrator on that portion will give him extreme pleasure. You can give lot of pressure over that small area which can give him utmost enjoyment.

-     You can use the vibrator to stimulate his anus. Don’t feel anything about running the vibrator over his anus. You can rub it around the outer skin, and softly press it inside or even just fully penetrate him with it. Of course, you need to clean the vibrator after using it over his anus before using it on him or yourself again.

CAUTION

While vibrators are widely used to enhance women’s sexual pleasures, there is a dark side to it and women need to be careful on the following factors while using a vibrator.

No, we are not talking about addiction factor.

Sensitiveness – When you start using a vibrator, your body will get accustomed to the strong vibrations and your body will need such intense vibrations to achieve orgasm. You become inescapable to such intense vibrations.

Over time, upon regular use of vibrators, your body will begin to get adjusted to the strength of your vibrator and you may not be able to achieve orgasm using manual masturbation or other simple means.

When you switch back to using only your hands, many women find that they couldn’t possibly get as much pleasure as using a vibrator, making it much harder to achieve orgasm.

The same is true for regular sex as well. If your body is so used to the intense vibrations of your vibrator, then you may begin having difficulty climaxing as your man can’t provide nearly as much stimulation using his fingers or organ or mouth.

This dependency on vibrator can be really frustrating not only for you but for your male partner as well. Even doctors who recommend vibrators to couples advise them to prepare for this possibility. Of course, the solution is simple, stop using your vibrator for a few months and your sensitivity will return.

Sex is all about how you feel and what you do to give and receive pleasure. When you enjoy the act and make your partner feel genuinely happy, then you can have a healthy and enjoyable sex life, either with a vibrator or without. Vibrator is just a tool and the trick lies in knowing how to use to give and receive pleasure.

Vibrators are fun, if it is used in moderation. When you begin to use it too often and not try manual methods, then you are likely to get addicted to it and there is no escape unless you decide to stop using it for a while and begin to pleasure yourself and your partner with your body.

Enjoy healthy sex life and have fun.