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According to medical experts and researchers, an average vaginal length from the tip to the cervix is 4.9 inches before arousal.

The average size of an erect male penis is 5.16 to 5.21 inches.

So, you can assume that the creator has created a perfect match for a male and female organ

It is an act in which the user stealthily removes a condom or tampers with it intentionally to allow mix up of bodily fluids. It is a practice that is gaining popularity worldwide. As it gives a sort of sadistic pleasure, some men indulge in it.

Condom stealthing may involve someone strategically damaging a condom before intercourse, without the knowledge of the female partner or stealthily remove condom during intercourse by deceiving the other.

Instances reported involve female partners damaging the condom by poking holes in it or suggesting to use a non-condom lubricant claiming it to be safe. They do this to become pregnant and claim damages or use their pregnancy status to threaten the male partner for reasons whatsoever. On the other hand, some men take off condoms during intercourse without the consent of the female partner. This happens quite easily while indulging in doggy style sex, which prevents female partner from seeing what is happening behind their back.

Though condom stealthing can happen between partners of any sexual preference, according to reports, it happens more frequently with women who are desperate to become pregnant, poke holes in the condom without the knowledge of their male partners.

There are also instances reported that some HIV positive people find utmost gratification when they are able to transmit viruses through condom stealthing. Anyone can indulge in condom stealthing, even those in a long term, monogamous andSTD-free relationships can do this, either for fun or intentionally to hurt or for pleasure and for any reason whatsoever.

Remember, stealthing perpetrators will try their luck mostly with those who are innocent, gullible and over trusting individuals. You can avoid it if you are prepared and are strong enough to stop them even before they attempt to make it. Remember, these people are slightly abnormal people and they are not normal like you and I. So, when you find any abnormal or suspicious behavior with your partner, or when you come across a deceptive or sneaky individual, particularly during your private time, it is a warning signal that you have to be careful and be careful about not going overboard during the act of sex.

Remember, people to tend to relax and enjoy the ride when they begin to use a well-lubed condom, thinking that they are indulging in a safe sex and there is nothing to worry about.

So, we give you here some safety tips to safeguard yourself from stealthing perpetrators.

1. It is always better to carry your own condoms. Particularly when you are having sex with unknown persons or in conditions where you cannot trust the intentions of the person you are having sex with. You can insist him or her to have your own condoms.

2. Stop during sex and do a visual check to ensure the condom is still in place.

3. Use a bright coloured condom so that you are able to see it with a slightest possible glance.

4. Use a condom that you can feel, something like textured or dotted condom, which you can feel by touching or with your skin. It should be easy enough for you to feel even when you are indulging in a dark room. You may still be able to feel the condom under any circumstances.

5. Ask your partner to ejaculate on your body, not in your vagina. Say this as your fantasy and make your sure partner does that. This can prevent you from condom stealthing and make the whole act a safe one. If you haven’t experienced it, then you are in for some real enjoyment.

6. Carry your own lube (such as silicone-based) that is safe to be used with condoms.

If you happened to be a victim of condom stealthing, don't worry, you can still be safe. There is a treatment called Post Exposure Prohelyaxis (PEP). This involves consuming a morning pill. If it is taken in time, it can prevent viruses from getting into your system, including HIV.

If you suspect that a stealthier has passed on his infections to your body intentionally, then you can approach a physician and ask for PEP straightaway.

Sex Flush is one of the ways human body responds to sexual activity. For some men and women, when they reach orgasm, their body skin suddenly becomes pinkish, red and blotchy or some will profusely sweat. You need not come to a conclusion that they are sick or going to die due to short of breath. There is nothing to worry about, they are just going through what is called as Sex Flush.

This drastic change in skin colour and appearance or profuse sweating is called as vaso congestion, which happens due to an increased blood pressure and swelling of tissues due to increased flow of blood. Vaco congestion can occur during erections, nipple hardening, clitoral swelling and orgasm.

According to study, Sex Flush happens more often among women than men. Statistics outline that 75% of women experience Sex Flush on occasions, while it is reported to have happened only to 14% among men. Typically women get sex flush around their breasts, face and arms, while men tend to get it on their neck, back and forehead.

Generally, it is observed that people who get a red face when they are angry or depressed and those who become splotchy while drinking alcohol are most likely to get sex flush during their sexual activity.

So, if you are dating someone new or meeting someone for the first time and notice the above mentioned tendencies of their faces turning red, be prepared to experience sex flush on them during your intimate time.

Remember, Sex Flush happens because of heightened blood pressure. So the extremes of sex flush are dependent on the temperature of the environment of the room in which you both indulge in sex. For people who are prone to sex flush, or if you know that your partner shows sex flush during sex, then it is important to avoid any warming lubricants, toys or warm condoms, as these can further heat up and make sex flush more pronounced. Instead, you can try cooling lubricants, cool condoms or wet lubricants and things that can bring down the temperature of his or her body during the act.

Mint condoms and lubes with mint flavor can also be tried as it could of use to reduce the hot sensations, which can show up as sex flush. These cooling lubricants can not only reduce the temperature but also emanate a pleasant fragrance that can be soothing to the senses as well.

Using cotton sheets and turning down the air conditioner are some of the natural ways to handle sex flush. If you are particular about using a toy, you can use a glass toy which can't heat up your body while still allowing you to enjoy your sensations.

No. It is not a rash or sunburn that will remain forever and leave a mark on your skin. Sex Flush will go away in time. When you sit under a fan, apply cold water and ice on the portion of the skin where you experienced sex flush and taking sufficient rest will ensure disappearance of sex flush.

For some sex flush may take upto 2 hours to disappear. There is nothing to worry about. This is absolutely normal. The duration may wary from person to person, though. For some, it may take a little while than others. But it will go off completely and there is no need to worry about it.

Fordyce Spots are small bumps that can appear on the edge of your lips, inside your cheeks. It can also appear on the foreskin of the penis, on the shaft or on scrotum for men and on the vulva and labia for women. The spots are also called as Fordyce Granules. This is nothing but enlarged oil glands in our body called Fordyce glands.

Fordyce spots can be more visible on circumcised organ particularly during an erection. These appear from the glands. It may slightly vary in size for men and women and depending on the location of the spot. It can be anywhere between 1mm to 3mm in size.

No. They are not contagious. It is common for people to assume Fordyce Spot happens due to viral infection and fear that they may contract it from their partners. The anxiety increases manifold when they happen to see these spots for the first time with a new partner.

People tend to get panic when they spot Fordyce spots in their own genitalia, particularly during the first time when they happen to see this unwanted lump sneaking its head out. As it not caused due to virus or bacteria, you need not worry about spreading. So, Fordyce spots are not contagious and you can have sex with a partner having it, if you are ok.

It is always recommended to use a condom to protect yourself from anything including Fordyce Spots.

If you find it embarrassing to have sex with your partner having spots on your shaft, you can choose a coloured condom which can give the spot a good cover allowing you to enjoy a happy time with your partner.

Yes, it is normal. It is estimated that close to 30% of the general population has atleast seen one incidence of Fordyce Spots in their life. Fordyce spots are found to occur more commonly among males compared to females, though it can potentially affect both men and women of all ages from as small as 3 to as old as 80.

Fordyce spots are completely normal and it can never harm your partner in any way. So, there is  nothing to worry about if you get it or if you find your partner having it.

Fordyce Spots never go away by itself without any treatment. You need to take treatments and follow medical procedures, if they pose a cosmetic problem. Though there are laser treatments available to remove them, it can cause a scar. There are also peeling methods involving certain chemicals by trained doctors, again too can lead to a scar on your skin.

It is advisable to go through proper medication and wait until it disappears normally without leaving any scar. Trying the above methods can lead to permanent scar on the skin and it can become too uncomfortable to hide to your partner.

Micropenis is used to refer to those having penis size that is considered too small compared to the average penis size. The term Micropenis is often used or hurled at somebody in a way to disrespect, hurt or insult someone.

When someone is termed as Micropenis, he is referred to as someone who cannot physically competent to give satisfying sex to a female partner. It is a derogatory term used to bash a male ego.

Micropenis is a real condition that has affected 0.6% of men worldwide. So, there are countless men do have micropenis. An average international erect penis size is 5 to6 inches.  Technically, when someone's erect shaft length is less than2 incheshe can be termed to have a micropenis.

It is a condition in which the penis doesn’t grow during puberty and remains in a semi-infant stage. Men with micropenis do have erections and reproductive capabilities such as sperm production and ejaculation just like other men with normal penis.

There is also a medical condition called AIS (Androgen Insensitivity Syndrome) which can lead to micropenis. For men with AIS, they will only have stunted penis growth, but they will not have any female hormonal characteristics such as development of breasts, reduced body hair, soft skin etc., Men with AIS will have same male characteristics similar to other men with a normal penis.

If you or your partner has a micropenis, it doesn't mean your sex life has to get impacted because of it. There are tons of sex tips available online for men with small penis. You can also master cunnilingus techniques to make it enjoyable for her and allow her to enjoy a full blown orgasm through cunnilingus.

Sex toys can also provide you with handful of ways to give her a highly pleasurable sex and give her an arousal with which she can hit the roof top. Vibrating rings, bullet massagers and other things can also be tried to enjoy a satisfying sex life.

For men with micropenis, trying a condom is not suitable as most condoms come in lengths larger than6 inchesand the circumference may not suit a micropenis. Even if such men try a snug fit condom, the length may be too long for them that it can disrupt the proceedings making it awkward. However, you can still try enjoying a safe sex with her wearing a female condom.

If you couldn't give your girlfriend that big 'O' experience, first talk to her. Find out if she is enjoying sex with you. Know that some women may have difficulty in experiencing an orgasm even though they enjoy sex with their partners. Your girlfriend could be that type. She may not be able to tell you the exact reason for not experiencing an orgasm, as she may not know it though.

Now, you buy a vibrator and ask her to use it till she receives orgasm. From close quarters find out which kind of stimulation gives her great arousal and that which makes her experience orgasm. For some girls clitoral stimulation is important for achieving orgasm, while for some sufficient stroking of vagina is needed to hit the roof. For some, cuddling, teasing, dirty talking and sensual teasing, foreplay, oral sex and whole bunch of other factors are important for them to reach climax. You need to understand what makes her experience orgasm. You need to be patient, talk to her or understand through your observation. Just pushing your guns harder and longer may not always work out.

Watch what she does with a vibrator. Take a look at her movements, how and where she paces it, rhythm she follows, speed and where and how she strokes etc., to achieve her orgasm. You just repeat the same with your organ.

If required, try using a lube. She might not be wet enough down under. When you introduce a lube things might ease out and the new sensation that she experiences may make her to experience orgasm at a quick time.

Know what gives her a high, clitoral stimulation or g-spot stroking.

Try oral sex and change the pace and introduce variations to allow her to experience different sensations. If required you watch some tips of cunnilingus and know the art and science of it.

You can also begin to focus on some of the erroneous zones of her body like neck line, boobs, hips etc., While you may be too focused on pleasure hole down under, you might push her to orgasm even by just playing with her boobs, who knows? Some women react to different sensations differently and who knows which body part can trigger her to throw up.

So, you need to be little patient and spend some time exploring her needs closely. When you do that, there is always a way that you can make her receive an exploding orgasm. You might just take few more attempts, that all. But it is not something that needs mastering rocket science. It is paying attention and understanding her needs, as simple as that.

Last but not the least, try the time tested technique. Make good use of her ears; talk dirty or compliment her beauty and her flawless body. Even playing a good music can set the tone for an exhilarating orgasm.

You can practically reach your girl friend's g-spot with your fingers. You just need to be patient and explore a bit to hit it right. Put your longest finger inside and explore. If you could feel a fleshy walnut inside the vaginal canal, that means you have spotted her g-spot.

It is a small lump that you can feel. Further, you can confirm through her quivering reaction. The moment you touch it, you can see her shiver in pleasure and you can see the kind of reaction that she would have never expressed, if you are touching her g-spot for the first time.

Anal sex is considered riskier than oral and vaginal sex because the potential of giving or receiving infections is too high compared to other sexual options.

Why anal sex is not considered safe:

Unlike vagina, there is no natural lubrication in the anus, which can make it painful for both partners when it is stretched forcefully. Even if you both are clean and free from any diseases, there is a good chance for both partners to get infections because of the amount of harmful bacteria that is seated in the anus.

Anal sex too can lead to pregnancy:

Some couples resort to anal sex under the guise that it can prevent them from getting pregnant and indulge in anal sex without any protection. But they don't understand that there is a greater sex of becoming pregnant if semen drips down and enters vagina accidentally. So, it is better to use protection during an anal sex.

But don't get scared. It is still absolutely possible to have safe anal sex. We give below some of the ways to make your anal safe and enjoyable.

Make yourself clean and comfortable

It is suggested to have a hot bath before your anal, to clean your anus thoroughly and keep the muscles relaxed to make your penetration easier. If required, you can also use an anal douche.

Lube

You may not use a lube during vaginal sex, but it is important that you necessarily have to use a lubricant during your anal sex, as there is no natural lubrication produced in the anus. The pressure of sex and the resulting friction can potentially tear the muscles in anus making it easy for bacteria to pass onto your organ. Keeping untreated anal tearing can also lead to cancer. Even if you are wearing a lubricated condom, it is better to add little more lubricant to ensure your anal gets as smooth as possible.

Remember to avoid using water-based lubricants for anal sex as water gets absorbed in anus. Hence, you should only use silicone-based lubricants for anal sex. There are specially made lubes for back stretch.

Use condoms

Condoms are important for safe anal sex as well. As Anus is the seat of several harmful bacteria and the thin anal tissues are susceptible to tearing during a vigorous anal sex, using a condom is important for not receiving or giving infection. There are some silicone based condoms that are available exclusively for anal sex.

Don't change from anal to vaginal

It is dangerous to go from anal sex to vaginal sex using the same condom. The woman might be susceptible to getting bladder infection, urinary tract infection, kidney infection and yeast formation leading to infections. You have to necessarily end the game at anal and remove the condom. If you want a vaginal sex again after an anal, then you can remove the existing condom, wear a new one and then indulge in vaginal sex. 

Don't change from anal to oral

Needless to say, going from anal to oral sex with the same condom is super risky. It will result in transferring anal STDs to your mouth. The bacteria from an unclean anus, if enters your digestive tract, can lead to several serious illnesses.

If it hurts, please stop

If your anal begins to hurt, it is advisable to stop it immediately.  Doing any further can seriously injure your anus. Ideally you can take a break and retry again after sufficient rest and with more lube. Take your time and do it only when she is comfortable to take it again. It is common sense, after all.

If it is your first time anal sex, then you should never allow your partner to insert his penis during the first time.

Your anus should be sufficiently stretched to avoid pain or micro tear of your tissues. Ideally, you partner should begin by inserting his lubed finger for the first time or use a sufficiently lubed small vibrator to ensure you are comfortable and it is enjoyable to you.

You can use a dildo or a butt plug to make it convenient.

When you know that you are ready for a full penetration, then you can ask him to insert his penis. Banging on with his penis straightaway can make things painful and you will find it uncomfortable to bear the pressure.

Use a condom for protection. There are exclusive condoms for anal sex. Don't use a lambskin condom as they are not recommended for anal sex.

Remember to use lot of lubes, which is very critical for an enjoyable anal time. Don’t think saliva is enough, as shown in porn movies. Saliva may soon dry up and you will begin to feel pain.

Congratulations on your pregnancy. Pregnancy can make you and your partner have an exciting time. You need not stop the excitement reach your bedroom. To answer your question, YOU CAN HAVE SEX NORMALLY UNTIL YOUR AMNIOTIC SACK BREAKS. That means, you can have normal sex till your 34th week of your pregnancy and it is absolutely safe.

It is believed that having sex regularly can relieve pregnant women from having morning sickness during pregnancy. Regular sex during pregnancy can also keep your vaginal muscles stretched and relaxed, making it ready for delivering the baby. So, having sex during pregnancy is not something to worry about. Indulge in as much, but keep it safe.

But the question is, you will have to find whether you have any mood for sex.

1. During the first trimester (first 3 months), you may feel mood swings, tired and stressed. You may also feel nauseatic and your breasts may become sore. So, ideally you need not force yourself to have sex, unless you feel so.

2. If you are having sex with multiple partners during pregnancy or if you don't know about theSTDstatus of your partner, then it is important that you have sex with a condom. Because if infected during pregnancy, there is a possibility that infection may pass on to your baby in the womb.

3. Oral sex is also safe during pregnancy.

Let us see some of the Dont's during pregnancy:

-          He should never blow air into your vagina during your entire pregnancy period. Because air that gets trapped inside the vagina can cause an embolism, which can be really bad for your baby. It can be fatal to your baby as well.

-          With your bulging stomach, you should not have positions that involve him pressing against your stomach. You should choose positions that don't put any stress on your abdomen.

-          Side wards penetration like 'spooning' positions alone should be tried during your pregnancy.

-          There are number of guides available online on sex positions during pregnancy. Google and choose the one that is comfortable to you both.

-          If your gynec asks you not to indulge in sex due to some complications, you should completely refrain yourself from having sex.

When you both are in love, you can always find a way to have satisfying sex irrespective of your height difference. There are positions that you both can try to enjoy a satisfying sex. Whether he or she may be short, we provide suitable sexual positions for such couples.

Don’t worry we are going to suggest some acrobatic positions that involve defying gravity or gymnastic skills. Our positions are suitable for both vaginal and anal sex.

Bed may not always be suitable for such couples. We suggest you some of the practical tips to enjoy a mutually gratifying sex despite being a couple with significant height difference.

Shower sex

If the one who penetrates is a taller partner, then shower sex can be a good one to try. He can get himself seated and allow her to ride him. Couples can also try cowgirl or reverse cowgirl positions. If the male is strong enough, he can lean backwards and lift the shorter partner and have sex in a standing position.

If the penetrator is a shorter one, then he can make her sit on edge of the bath tube or closet and penetrate by standing with a slight bent knees. The receiving partner can hold her partners shoulder for support and keep her legs wide open to make it easy for him.

Doggy

If the penetrator is a taller one, you can give your partner some pillar or stack up with something in your household so that you get the position right. You can bring the mattress on the floor and you can kneel on the floor to get the height matching. If the penetrator is a shorter one, you can use any suitable furniture or some elevated stuff to get the height right.

Spooning

Spooning can make it ideal for couples of all heights and weight differences. Instead of having someone larger than you by height and weight, spooning makes it comfortable for both partners. Spoony position works well for both vaginal and anal sex, you may just have to adjust yourself a bit to get the position right for an enjoyable vaginal, though.

Wall Sex

Every men and women must have wall sex fantasy. For the taller guy, and if he is able to lift her girl friend, then he can lift her, pin her against the wall and push his throttle to make it a steamy one. If the penetrator is short, then she can bring a chair closer to him, then position herself in kneeling position and allow him to carry out the to-and-fro action by holding the chair for support.

Condom pumping is a technique tried by men who are desirous of increasing the size of their penis. This involves using a penis pump, specially created for this purpose, and by wearing condom over the penis to safeguard the soft and delicate skin of the penis from getting affected due to excessive pumping.

Condom pumping can also be done without wearing a condom. But it can make it extremely difficult as the heat generated due to pumping on high pressure can heat up the soft skin of the penis. Using condom can act as a barrier to prevent heat from rupturing the skin of the penis. Further, condom also expands when penis expands due to increased blood flow.

A penis should be inserted into a cylindrical tube (called penis pump) up to the base of the. Then a manual or battery powered pump connected to it creates a vacuum, which causes blood to rush to the penis and make it enlarge. Care should be taken not to indulge in excess pumping there could be a possibility of blood vessels bursting leading to permanent damage to the penis. So you are cautioned against over pumping.

This penis pump is a medical device that is generally used for those men who suffer from Peyronie's Disease. This is the condition in which penis becomes extremely curved, shortened and becomes impotent. The sufferer may not be able to get an erection. However, penis pump is known to provide significant improvement in penile length, straighten the curvature after few weeks of regular use of penis pump.

It is noted that outcome of penis pumping will not give permanent results. Soon after the pumping session, users can feel some sort of short-term gain in both length and width of the penis and it can be useful for immediate or short-term psychological satisfaction. After the pumping, users can remove the condom and put on an erection ring to trap blood in the penis to sustain an erection for some time.

It should be remembered that using penis pump for increasing the length of the penis can lead to injury and it comes with a risk of permanently damaging the penis nerves. So, it is highly recommended to take your physician's consent before beginning to try it.

The regular condoms available in the market may not fit you and it could be very intimidating to look at the normal condoms which are out of size for someone with a smaller penis.

Going to a store and asking for a smaller sized condom can also be painful as it could lead to embarrassment. But, there is no need to feel dejected.

There are few condoms which are specially meant for men with smaller penis and we give below some of the practical tips to enjoy safe sex with condoms.

You can buy right condoms specific to your organ size by comparing your length using condombazaar.com / size chart. But remember, size charts can help you only to an extent.

You have to choose the condom according to how it fits your organ and how comfortable it feels for you. Remember, condom is important to help you enjoy a safe sex. It is meant to prevent you from any infection and to avoid unwanted pregnancy.

We give you few tips to consider while choosing the right condom for you.

Choose the Right Girth - You should choose the condom that fits your girth, rather the length. Understand that average condom size is anywhere between 5 to6 inches.

So, if your organ is going to be below3 inches, then you can choose a condom that fits your girth, so that you can role it over your organ until its full length and enjoy a safe sex. When it perfectly fits your organ's girth, there is no need to worry about your safety. You can just go on and enjoy a fulfilling sex with your partner.

Don't buy condoms labeled as Snug-Fit - Don't take it for granted that condoms labeled as snugger-fit will always give you the perfect fit. Remember, if the condom is too tight, there is always a possibility of condom tearing midway and if it is too lose, it can drop off your organ while you ejaculate your load. So, it is always important to choose the condom that fits your organ perfectly.

Choose the one that is comfortable - You may choose the condom according to the size chart, but still choose the one that is comfortable to you; after all sex is all about giving and receiving pleasure. Choose the one that you find it comfortable even if it is little bigger or smaller.

As long as you find it comfortable, then you should go for it. Choosing something that is comfortable against something that fits on paper is a sure way to enjoy a safe and fulfilling sex with your partner.

The above tips can help you enjoy a safe and orgasmic sex with your partner, irrespective of your organ size. These are some of the general tips that are meant for men with smaller penis size. Hope it helps!

Many men across the world face this problem. There is an opportunity for having sex. But their organ may not respond positively leaving them frustrated. Men in such scenarios think that there is something horribly wrong with him or he is facing some serious health issues that prevent him from getting erection.

Women involved in such scenario while blame him or blame themselves that they are not attractive enough to arouse him. In such scenarios, there could be number of factors that can come into play.

There are two ways to look at your problem. If you already have a history of erection problem and/or taking treatment, then you should only consult your doctor to rectify it. We have no say as you need a proper treatment. Or, if you are getting this problem quite frequently in the recent past and it is occurring more frequently with every passing day, then you certainly have some health issues, and you certainly need to consult a doctor immediately.

This could also be an indication of underlying problems in your sexual wellness.

But you have been active in sex, but suddenly not getting a proper erection while wearing a condom; we have some suggestions for you. Erection is purely hormonal. Meaning, it is an interplay of hormones in your body, which comes together to help you achieve an erection.

It has lot to do with your thinking and feeling. How and what you feel and how much is your rate of arousal has lot to do with feeling.

Remember, there are many factors that come together correctly to help you achieve and retain an erection for required duration to enjoy a healthy sex. The following are the 4 general reasons identified for men who couldn't maintain an erection while wearing a condom.

Sexual Anxiety

Sexual Anxiety is defined as the most important and most common reasons behind impotence of several men across the world. For men wearing a condom is a sure shot indication that his lady is ready for a penetrative sex and this can immediately clog their mind and make them anxious whether they will be able to perform good enough to give her an orgasm.

They began to feel the burden of sexual expectation and the resulting emotional load begins to drain their excitement leading to withdrawal symptoms such as nervousness, pressure and fear. The emotional turmoil immediately reacts on their organ leading to steep fall in the erection.

This is more common among men who have a history of panic attacks and general anxiety disorders. Either you can consult a doctor to get yourself relieved of sexual anxiety. Alternatively, you can calm yourself down and begin to feel positive and let happy thoughts flow into your mind that you are going to have an enjoyable time with your partner.

When you shift your focus from fear to happiness, there is a good chance that you can retain your erection all by yourself. It just requires your mental conditioning and positive attitude.

Burn out

When you are too much involved in sex, masturbation, watching pornography continuously, then there is always a chance for you to have become burnt out sexually.

Due to excessive sexual thoughts and physical actions, your response stimuli might have slowed down due to physical exhaustion. You can take sufficient rest, refrain yourself from sexual activities for a day or two, then indulge in sexual activity with your partner. Chances are that you will be able to retain an erection.

Wrong Condom Size

It is always important to wear the right condom size. When you use a wrong condom size, it may make things really uncomfortable making you lost interest in sex and which can cause you to lose your erection. Stick to a brand or size that you are comfortable with.

So, when you are losing your erection while wearing a condom, see whether you have bought the right condom size. Wear over tight condom always comes with the risk of condom tear, while the large size can fall down with the weight of your ejaculated load. So, it is important to wear the condom that is perfect for your organ size.

Over Desensitization during previous time

If you had used a delay condom or an erection ring during your previous sexual encounter, there is always a possibility that it would be desensitized your organ more than required. If the erection ring is too tight at the base of your penis, it can actually cut off blood flow to a large penis and cause flaccidness to occur.

Delay condoms too can make your tip too desensitized after a prolonged encounter making it difficult to get an erection. While using delay spray, if you had over sprayed out of excitement, then there is always a possibility that your organ may feel desensitized. This could also make your organ remain flaccid.

Lack of stimulation

Sex is a mind game and each one has their own preferences, fantasies, techniques, methods and fetishes. Things may not work with some new partners who may not be able to stimulate you properly. This could also trigger a negative sexual stimuli leading to lack of erection. Some partners may also not know how to give, while they may receive a good amount of pleasure from you.

Some woman may always be a mute participant and could be a complete turn off for you. In such a scenario, you may not be able to feel stimulated enough to achieve or retain erection. There is no hard and fast rule about what can stimulate and what cannot. It is entirely upto you.

If you are not getting an erection while wearing a condom, then the above mentioned reasons could also be the reasons for it. So, there is nothing to worry about it and you can just refresh yourself mentally and take sufficient rest and try your luck again.

Chances are that you could be able to your boner back and enjoy a stimulating session with your partner.

From time immemorial, men are too conscious about the length of their organ that is hanging around. Psychologically men are too insecure about penis size and researches confirm that men are too obsessed about penis size and many of them worry about it irrespective of having an average size.

Men are made to believe that women are attracted and long for men with long penis. Though it is true that size does matter to few women, but what several sex surveys conducted across the world have time and again proven is that substantial majority of women don't care about the size of the organ, rather they wanted to be with men who are warm, kind, caring and funny and those men who can respect their space, share their values and interests.  

Historically penis has a lot to do with symbolism. Several cultures across the world values penis as a symbol of masculine identity, strength and potency and insult to a male's penis is always seen as a threat to the existence of an individual. More than women, it is men who are too judgmental about the size of the male organ.

For many men, the deeply symbolic and psychological attachment to the penis starts early in the life and cultures reinforce importance attaching the size as a representation of the masculinity making it always a source of great anxiety for men.

It is an age-old issue that many men struggle with. The ideology is deeply ingrained in their minds that it is difficult for men to believe that size doesn't matter at all.  The answer is more complicated. However, the problem is more centered on male's perception than with their partners.

Penis Size: Facts and Misconceptions:

According to a study reported in the journal Psychology of Men and Masculinity,

-          the erect penis size of most men — 68% — is between 4.6 and6 incheslong.

-          Only 16% of men have an erect penis size longer than6.1 inches,

-          for 2.5% of men have over6.9 inches.

-          About 16% of men have an erect penis size that’s shorter than4.5 inches,

-          only 2.5% of those under3.7 inches.

So, scientifically only 2.5% of men can worry about their size, and rest all can relax and feel good about themselves as they have normal size, similar to what their colleagues, peers, neighbours, relatives have.

Psychological consequences:

Men who believe their penis size was too small were less likely to undress in front of their partner, more likely to hide their penis during sex, and more likely to consider themselves unattractive. They will have low self esteem. On the other hand, men who thought they had a large penis were likely to be more self-confident and believe themselves to be attractive.

Women's perception:

Penis size does matter to women, but it turns out that when women talk about penis size, it’s usually about the width, not the length. A very long, skinny penis is not as pleasurable as a shorter, fatter one for most women. Researchers have confirmed that the thickness of a male's penis is what makes women to feel lot fuller - the feeling of fullness that's produced with an object or a penis inside the vaginal wall."

Penis size is not the final determining factor in a man’s ability to satisfy a woman or enjoy sex. The two of the most sexually sensitive areas for a woman are clitoris and G-spot. The G-spot is located at one-third from the entrance of the vaginal barrel. Even with a short penis, the job of stroking the G-spot can be done quite effectively.

Female ejaculation is a topic that is interesting to young men and women across the world. There are countless porn videos of squirting women and it is a phenomenon that is not fully understood even among the scientific community because of lack of research funding and lack of availability of women, as only a very few percentage of women actually squirt and it is not like they squirt every time they climax.

Is it something that happens only in Porn movies or it is real?

Squirting is real and some women across the world do experience. They experience a gush of liquid coming out of their organ. It really happens , so it cannot be deemed completely as 'fake' and orchestrated by porn movies.

Is it urine or some other secretion?

Until 1980s, it was concluded that the gushing liquid from the female genitalia during orgasm is only urine as there is no other place that can store so much liquid in a woman's body. But later researchers proved that this theory is completely false. A study on chemical composition of a squirted liquid found to be extremely different than that of urine.

While urine is yellow in colour and foul smelling and it is known to leave a yellow stain on bed sheets and other clothes. Whereas squirted liquid resembles a water-down skimmed milk as it is white in colour and without any foul smell. It was also not known to create any stain on the bed spread. Recent research suggests that perhaps the ejaculate is an alkaline liquid that isn't like urine, because it doesn't contain urea or creatinine, which are normal urinary constituents. The fluid tends to be clear coloured and allegedly doesn't stain bedclothes yellow.

Researchers have claimed that it contains some chemical ingredients similar to those produced by the male prostate – notablyPSA(prostate-specific antigen). It is also said to contain two sugars: glucose and fructose. Some researchers have suggested the liquid may be the secretion of Skene's glands (the paraurethral glands). These are tiny structures which lie around the female urethra.

It is found that liquid squirted is usually a liquid from urethra and it comes from an opening other than usual opening from which urine comes. Women who have experienced and men who have touched and tasted squirted liquid vouch that the liquid is different from urine. Some men have even reported that squirted liquid was mildly sweet in taste.

However, women who experience squirting for the first time, may even think that it is urine as women tend to feel a sense of urinating before they experience orgasm. The tension builds up will make them feel like urinating.

Quantity                                 

Squirting may result in sudden expulsion of 2 teaspoons or 2 cups fluid. It varies from woman to woman and varies with each woman every time.

It is found that prolonged and specific stimulation of the G-spot results in squirting. The G-spot is located at a finger's length inside the vagina on the frontal size (towards the belly button) approximately the size of a walnut.

For women who squirt, there is no need to feel ashamed about it. Rather, they should feel happy about themselves as only few women are able to experience squirting. It is a special experience that they are gifted with. It should be noted that male partners of squirting women like it. If a woman squirts, her male partner may regard it as a tribute to their sexual abilities in making a woman ejaculate and experience a squirting orgasm.

Climax Spray is absolutely safe and effective to treat Premature Ejaculation in any Age group.

But be assured, whether you are suffering from early ejaculation (Premature Ejacualtion) or difficulty in Getting and Sustaining an erection for Penetrative sex to satisfy your parter.

The second case being Erectile Dysfunction and is common in elderly males. 

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Some sex researchers claim that there is no such thing called G-spot and it is completely imaginary that is created to make men and women believe that there is some mystery spot inside them which needs to be explored to experience heights of erotic pleasure, because one can only experience it to believe it.

The 'G' in the G-spot comes from Grafenberg, a German physician who theorized in 1940s that women had something similar to the prostrate in men which can be used to reach ejaculation. One theory proposes that G-spot can be identified only when a woman is aroused. So, until a woman is thoroughly aroused, it is difficult to identify g-spot inside her vagina. Another theory says that it is not just a spot or a lump. It is a zone inside the vaginal walls capable of giving heightened pleasure.

The most recent theory is that G-spot is located on the anterior wall of the vagina and when it is stimulated, it gives a unique sensation to certain nerves within the body, making it feel very pleasurable to a woman.

One theory is that there is nothing called G-spot and Clitoris is actually much larger that what it appears and it stretches through the body wrapping around the vagina like a creeper. So, clitoral nerves going along the vagina, when stroked gives a highly pleasurable sensation that make researchers feel that G-spot is inside the vagina, which is nothing more than the extension of clitoris.

Steps to find and stimulate the G-spot

If you want to drive your partner wild, then you should do the following:

-          G-spot is located near the top of the vaginal canal, meaning, it is located below the naval button.

-          Pair your exploration along with clitoral stimulation either through hand or oral. When a woman is aroused, it is easier to find her g-spot. You can feel her g-spot by inserting your fingers facing upwards. It can be best done by rubbing her clitoris with your thumb and using your index finger to explore vaginal canal.

-          When you insert your finger on the top of the vaginal wall, you can feel a walnut like lump with a little rough surface. If you could find it, just rub is gently in circular motion and you can know from her reaction whether you are hitting the spot or not.

-          If you find pain using your fingers after a few minutes, then you can try many of the
g-spot vibrators that are available. These vibrators are designed in such a shape that it can hit the g-spot perfectly. You just need to position the toy in such a way that curved portion is facing upwards.

-          If you have a penis with a curved tip, thank your stars and you are naturally gifted to reach her g-spot with your organ. You need to do penetration using a cowgirl or reverse cowgirl position, depending on the way in which your organ is curved and you will be able to hit her g-spot with your organ and give her a quivering pleasure in the end.

-          Sex researchers confirm that doggy is the best position to hit the g-spot as this position allows penis to hit the anterior walls of the vagina making her feel the sweet sensation.

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But you have the problem of delayed ejaculation, kindly stop taking the tablets immediately and consult a good sexologist or andrologist