Fellatio (Blow Job) Tips and Techniques

Do you enjoy giving your partner a blow job?

Are you a novice at blow job?

Whoever you may be, there are some valuable tips given here that will allow you to enjoy your blow job. Remember, giving a perfect blow job can make your partner genuinely happy and having an enjoyable oral sex can actually help you in enhancing the strength of your relationship and it can also add to the longevity of your relationship.

If you can enjoy and master few fellatio techniques, you can pass it on to your partner and make him happy.

Basically, the head of the penis is the most sensuous part of the organ as it has most nerve endings, while stroking the shaft and cupping the scrotum and slightly squeezing the underside of the shaft are some basic ways to give your partner an exciting oral sex experience.

You need to show attention to the whole of his genitals as a whole, not just the tip of the penis.

How to overcome oral sex obstacles?

Do you choke while giving him head?

Don't worry, you are not alone. There are several issues to tackle when it comes to giving fellatio. Some of the suggestions and solutions to make your fellatio an enjoyable experience.

Performance Anxiety - Just relax and don't let your heart beat faster. It is not a race to finish fast. It is about communication, enjoying pleasure and developing intimacy.

Take a few deep breaths before taking it over your mouth. Remain in a calmer mindset and prepare yourself for an enjoyable experience. When you are anxious, you tend to do it fast and begin to feel lack of oxygen.

Apply lube - Take his manhood with a condom feels lot better, particularly with a flavoured condom. When you apply lube, things become quite easy and effortless as it reduces the friction to a great extent.

Breathe through your nose - You need to breathe through the nose while doing fellatio and it becomes difficult when you have cold or suffering from some allergies. When you find it difficult to breathe, alternate from swirling licks, move your head out for a while and straighten up your sucking mode.

Cover your teeth - Make sure you don't use your teeth during the entire duration of fellatio. Your teeth can hurt him. It can also puncture a condom making your intimate time unsafe, leaving you both at risk for transmission. If you have sharp teeth using a dental wax is recommended. The goal is to enjoy his manhood and avoid blood so you have to make sure that you don't rip his skin apart with your teeth.

Reducing Gag Reflex - You need bit of a practice as it amounts to swallowing a sword. You need to adjust your head and neck to enjoy swallowing his hard pillar up and down.

Eyes tearing up - You might lose your make up on your eyes due to the intense action you are upto. If contact lenses are an issue, remove it first and then get into the act. For those wearing glasses, you need to try whether it can work with your glasses on or else you have to remove it and get into the act.

Get your position right - You can be on your knees or squatting in front of him to take his manhood. Or you can choose any position that is comfortable to you.

Your knees may pain if you indulge in fellatio for a long time. It can also hurt your back a little when you do it for a little longer. To get your balance and position right, you can also use a soft mattress below your knees. Do it in ways that you are enjoying it without any discomfort or pain.

Hair in your mouth - It is very likely that his hair might come into your mouth, making it very uncomfortable and unpleasant. Make sure to push his hairs below before starting the fellatio to avoid hair strands finding its way into your mouth. Better ask your partner to trim it regularly so that it doesn't get into your mouth.

Be wary of Micro tears - Don't use tobacco, chewing gums or eat some foods that can cause micro tears in your mouth. Don't indulge in fellatio while you have something in your mouth. This can cause micro tears. If you take him with a micro tear, there is always a risk of transmission of infections through the micro tear. You should be careful while doing it with a new partner.

Be careful about deep throating - It might be tempting to enjoy a deep throating action. But it can hurt and there is a possibility that you might not able to breathe. So, while you are indulging in deep throating make sure your partner understands your sign language to know that you are struggling and pull out his cock to make it easy for you.