Cunnilingus Tips and Techniques

So, you are ready to dive into the wet and wild world of cunnilingus. Female anatomy is still a mystery and many are still baffled by the mystic reactions of women to various types of touches and licks.

Still many men are unsure of how and what to lick and when to lick the female genitals. Though every man loves to indulge in cunnilingus, not everyone can be dubbed as Captain Cunnilingus.

Women love cunnilingus as much as penetrative sex. It gives them enormous arousal as clitoris is the place that is known to help several women achieve orgasm.

So, you can give her an explosive orgasm by swaggering your tongue in certain ways that can make women go crazy in pleasure.

We can give you some valuable tips that can result in hearing screams of ecstasy and memorable moaning. Who knows you could also witness some overflowing squirting sessions if you master cunnilingus techniques.

If you indulge in absolute enjoyment while licking and suckling her pleasure hole and every bit of her skin down under, she will go high.

Getting Started with Cunnilingus

Clitoris of a woman is a highly sensitive portion. There is no point in touching it when it is dry. The nut like structure is super sensitive and the desire for moisture is what makes women love to receive oral sex. So, more wetter always better. So, don't hesitate to use lubes, if required. 

Before getting down to work, be aware of your soft tongue and hard tongue. Because it is important to know when and where to use each portion of your tongue appropriately. Soft tongue is a floppy, soft and relaxed muscle which is ideal for clitoral excitement.

Hard tongue is the tip of your tongue, which is pointed, is firmer and is well suited for penetrative cunnilingus. You need to practice both, and a smooth transition between hard and smooth tongues appropriately will be noticed and appreciated.

Before going down, make sure she is in a comfortable position. Position yourself comfortably and make sure you have thorough access to her pleasure hole.

Start slow, do it with absolute enjoyment, listen to her, pay attention to her guiding hands and immerse yourself into the action thoroughly.

Some women like a circular tongue motion, such as a swirling clockwise or counterclockwise motion; some others like an up and down (nodding yes) movement from the vaginal opening to the clitoris.

Some women prefer a side to side (nodding no) motion, which causes less direct contact.  A combination of all three is the best, but you need to do what she enjoys the most by looking at how she reacts for each move.

Playing with Clitoris

The Clitoral hood is the female equivalent of uncircumcised foreskin on males. This thick skin works as a protective barrier from fabrics and other irritants. It also protects the sensitive area from temperature changes and overstimulation.

You should pull back this skin while performing cunnilingus. You should move the hood aside by spreading the labia otherwise clitoral stimulation will only be indirect. You may need more time to give her sufficient arousal.

You can find a woman enjoying suckling sensations on the clitoris as it is female equivalent of the head of the penis. As men enjoy suckling the head of the penis, women enjoy the same as much. However, you still need to go slow. Don’t suck harder unless she demands it.

Suckling the clit can also be bit painful for men as the hood is sharp and pointed. Start very softly and give lot of tongue sensation to her.

After few tongue strokes, you can find clitoris becoming erect and it will simply jut out from the hood and it will become lot easier for you to suck. If you have trouble holding the labia back while munching on her mound, ask her to hold them or get her to sit on your face, which will naturally spread her labia apart.

Face sitting comes with the risk of suffocation and lack of oxygen supply. When you feel that you have difficulty in breathing and lack of oxygen, make a hand signal or body action to make her stand up.

Otherwise you will have a heavenly death due to vaginal suffocation.

Never blow air inside vagina

As you are high on performance, never ever try to blow air into the vagina. Some men are known to make 'mmmmm' sound, similar to the noise made when delicious food is savoured to let their partner know that they are enjoying every bit of the taste.

In such a scenario, make sure you don't blow air inside the vagina. The air that gets trapped inside the vagina can cause serious health problems and uncomfortable sensations for her.

So, always use your tongue and never blow air while involved in action down below.

What's your pick on Pubic hair?

Pubic hair is something you have to deal with while involved in cunnilingus. Make her know beforehand your preference about pubic hard. If you don't like those tiny hairs getting into your teeth or stuck in your throat, ask her to shave it off.

Some men have craze to run through their tongue across a bare genitalia to get that special taste. Some men love that stub deep down and enjoy the hairy stuff as much. No matter whatever may be your preference, give her some time to keep it ready the way you want.

Don't ask her to shave in the middle of the act, which can distract and drain the interest. She might find it annoying to stop in the middle of her enjoying session.

Facial Hair

Similarly, you can listen to her preferences about your facial hair. She may like or dislike tickling or rough scratching of your coarse facial hair on her vagina. Some women even like a goat stub while some women like a clean shaven chin rubbing their vagina. Make sure you keep it the way she prefers.

Discharge during Cunnilingus

It is perfectly healthy, normal and natural for vaginas to discharge a variety of fluids. Some fluids are clear like lube, while others are white and thicker with a strong smell.

Be prepared to encounter distinct smell emanating from her pleasure hole suddenly during your action. Additionally, if you are hesitant to be around menstruating times, let her know this beforehand.

Though period sex is perfectly safe when you use protection, cunnilingus is not that safe. The bloody discharge during menstruation is not good to take on your mouth as it is prone to infections. If she still insists on cunnilingus, here is a small tip to avoid mess getting into your mouth during menstruation.

Ask her to keep her tampon or softcup in place during cunnilingus. This will ensure the blood flow is well inside the vagina and don't seep out.

Proceed with Caution

Though cunnilingus is a pleasurable sexual activity, it also comes with potential risks. Remember, oral sex is more prone giving and receiving STDs. Cunnilingus is the most commonly overlooked action with high possibilities for infection.

So, you are advised to proceed with caution, while it is natural for men to overlook in the heat of the action and rush of resulting emotions exchanged between partners. Please be aware that flavoured condoms, gloves and dental dams are available for safer oral sex and using these are important to ensuring your personal safety. Using dildos and vibrators can also be used to make her cunnilingus an outstanding experience.

If you have abrasions or cuts in your lips or on your facial muscles, it is better to stay safe to prevent exchange of bodily fluids. Similarly if you have bruise or cut wounds on your fingers or hands, it is better to stay away from fingering or other manual sex means.

So, enjoy your juicy session with her and drive her to moon by making a master stroke with your tongue.