12 BDSM Punishment Ideas for Extraordinary Sexual Pleasure

Before elaborating on BDSM punishment ideas, BDSM is a form of intense sex that gives extraordinary pleasure to both partners when it is done with consent.

It is also to be noted that BDSM strengthens the bonding between partners as it involves higher level of trust.

It should be noted that BDSM should be practiced with ultimate safety. Punishment is an important aspect in BDSM.

But it goes without saying that you need to have your partner’s consent before indulging in any form of punishment and you should be sure that your partner will enjoy this kind of sexual dynamics and you both derive unique form of pleasure by indulging in BDSM.

Punishments can be psychological, physical and or both. But there is a thumb rule in BDSM punishment.

It is not like a regular punishment in which a person inflicts punishment with an aim to make the other person suffer and / or feel the pain.

Whereas in BDSM punishment is given to allow the other person to enjoy the guilty pleasure associated with it. It is very important that you should never indulge in punishments out of anger or frustration, which would take away the fun element in bed and can lead to regrettable bruises.

Thus, punishment should be as per the following:

Play within SEC Limits.

It should be Safe, Endurable and Consensual. You cannot shock your partner with an unbearable punishment using some sharp object which can inflict deep bruise mark causing enormous pain or bleeding injury.

You have to be responsible and you can never cross the limit. Beyond a measure punishment can become an abuse.

You should never cross that limit. For example, you cannot deny water to your partner when she craves for it. This could potentially cause health risk.

Keep a Safe Word.

Before indulging in BDSM punishments, always keep a safe word that is outside the context of your physical relationship.

For instance, you can have a safe word like ‘elephant’ or ‘blue whale’ or ‘papaya’ as a signal to stop the play immediately or to check with your partner whether she is ok.

Please be informed that your safe word should be clearly outside the context of your bedroom scenario which is likely to come up during the heat of the moment. So, when your partner utters that safe word, it is a sign that she finds the going uncomfortable or unbearable that you should stop it immediately.

Know your partner’s limits.

Make sure you are aware of your partner’s endurance levels and make your punishments within that limit. You should never push yourself beyond that limit.

You can’t act as if you are on a revenge. Going beyond that will make things unpleasant leading to frustration.

Now, let us see the important 12 BDSM punishment sex ideas you can try:

SPANKING

Spanking is the oldest and well known punishment idea that is widely practiced in India and across the world. You can discipline your partner with a hard spank as a punishment when you find her flouting the rules. Spanking is safe as it is not going to hurt too long and you are spanking on her buttocks which has thick skin.

Spanking can be done with your hands, a whip, BDSM paddle or any other tool that you feel will give her pain without causing any bruise mark. You can spank on her both buttock at a time or change one after another. The spanking should be hard enough that she should make noise but not too hard to make a mark on her skin permanently. Take our word, she would enjoy even a hard spank.

Bondage

Bondage is a well-known form of punishment that has been in vogue since several centuries. This excites your partner so much because when her hand or leg movements are restricted, it will open up her other senses leading to highly sensual lovemaking as she would enjoy your advances thoroughly.

Unable to restrict or correct your advances, you have great freedom to explore her flawless body, which will give you an animalistic freedom to go at her at your will.

Bondage can be in any form, such as you can handcuff her, or tie her to the bed or can even lock her inside a cage, if you have an opportunity.

When you can tie her in an uncomfortable position, it makes the punishment severe and thus you both can enjoy guilty pleasure.

Mental Bondage

This is a type of bondage that is even more intense than physical bondage, in which you can keep her waiting for your instructions.

In this form of bondage, you can ask your submissive partner to remain in the same position until you tell her to relax, such as remaining in kneeling position or standing against a wall with her legs open etc.,

You can also intensify the punishment by making her stay in an uncomfortable position for a little longer.

The expectation of your movements or sexual advances can keep her in anxiety and the resulting pain due to uncomfortable position can do the trick. This is one of the tried and tested way to discipline her and you both can enjoy a lot after the session.

Restriction (non physical)

Restriction is one of the most enjoyable and yet highly intensive punishments that you can use to discipline your partner.

You can make your partner do something that she likes such as watching her favourite television program or eating her favourite food or sleeping in her usual position.

You can restrict her from doing things that she is so comfortable doing with and thus discipline her. She would soon succumb to the punishments and be ready to do whatever you want as this would be difficult for her to follow.

Restriction (Physical) with Restrains

Restricting her physical movements can be a great fun in bed. When her hands or legs are restricted, she would find it really difficult to stop you or to react, which can trigger an exciting sensation allowing you to enjoy her body at your will.

You can go on exploring her flawless body as you wish and enjoy every bit of it as her physical movements are restricted using a rope or other specially designed BDSM devices which can be really effective without causing any permanent injury or damage to her skin.

You can restrict her to remain in one position or simply restrict her hand or leg movements or both.

Denial of Orgasm

This is one of the interesting and exciting forms of punishment, which will make her beg to you for more as she must be really craving for a powerful orgasm.

You can discipline her quite easily and make her do whatever you want in this form of punishment. This will give you supreme control in bed as you can control the flow of the game and control when and how can she enjoy an orgasm in bed with you. You can use finger or organ or other stimulation.

Alternatively you can use specially designed BDSM devices like chastity belts or cock cage etc., to control the orgasm and ensure punishment is delivered effectively and enjoyably.

Speech Restrictions

This can provide loads of fun to both partners. Ideally you can use a BDSM gag device or something else to restrict her speech. When she can’t say you to stop, you can explore her at your will. When speech is restricted, it will open up her other senses to a great extent giving her an instant high.

But you need to be sure of some safe word as you can’t punish her beyond a point that it becomes dangerous for her. You need to ensure that she is able to breathe properly that her suffering is within safe and enjoyable limits only.

You both need to be clear about the rules and limits of humiliation. You both should be aware that going overboard can be dangerous.

Blindfolding

Blindfolding is an amazing form of BDSM practice that will help her enjoy intimacy to a great extent. As she couldn’t see and predict your movements, it will push her into a state of hopelessness that you can explore her flawless body at your will.

When her visual sensory is blocked, it will intensify other sensations allowing her to enjoy your touch, licks and penetration to a great extent.

You both can agree to a set period of blindfolding and thus plan your moves in advance so that she enjoys the humiliation and guilty pleasures to the maximum.

Blindfolding will open her to a new level of erotic pleasure, which has been in practice since ages. You can use this as a form of punishment or use it to discipline her. You can use BDSM blindfold gadget to ensure she is not seeing you by any chance.

Figging

This is a popular and age-old Japanese BDSM practice which involves inserting root of a ginger into her anus as a butt plug.

Though it might not look like a punishment, the oils in the ginger will react after a while and give her an unbearable burning sensation.

This is natural and harmless, in the sense that she won’t get any allergic reaction post the session.

As the skin in the anus is too sensitive, she would certainly feel the heat. When you are planning for an anal penetration post ‘figging’ you should certainly use a lot of lube to ensure her skin is not damaged any further.

Foot Whipping

This punishment involves whacking her bare feet using a stick or flogger. It is an age-old popular punishment which excites women. As foot has scores of sensory nerve endings, that portion is highly sensitive to touch.

So, any hard slap over her foot will not only give her pain, but will also give an impact even on her brain. That will excite her beyond doubt. You need to whip to bearable extent which will make her go through a pain-pleasure-pain cycle.

You can also use your bare hands to beat her legs, if you can give her sufficient pain. Foot whipping can be used to punish her or to discipline her.

Electric Stimulation

This is a special and rather an intense kind of punishment involving electrical impulses. Goes without saying that you need to be careful that she receives electric shock within safe limits.

Though electric stimulation is widely used in the BDSM community and known for its short but sharp sensation, you need to get your partner’s consent and see her comfort level in enjoying electric stimulation.

Otherwise, it might become too much for her and she may not enjoy the session. There are wide range of nipple stimulators, cock rings, clitoris stimulators and vaginal stimulators are available online. She will receive intense pleasure when she is used to enjoy electric stimulations.

Ice-cube Punishment

Ice cubes are often used in bedroom as a temporary pleasure play tool. But they can also be used as tools of punishments and to discipline her. When ice cubes are placed over her nipple, navel, clitoris, vagina or in any other part of her body.

When it is kept for a longer duration, she may find it difficult to bear as the cold ice cube can numb the skin around it. Ice cube punishment can be both painful and exciting as she would certainly enjoy.

Make sure you use ice cubes to an enjoyable limit as it could become too painful when it is kept at any particular place for a longer duration.

Note: Ice cubes should not be kept over portions where she has skin burns or cut injuries. Never use dry ice as it can become very dangerous.

The above punishments can help you both enjoy intense pleasure in bedroom and it would also expose you both to a higher level of sexual pleasure, the kind of which may not be possible under normal bedroom sex.

Have some intense fun and enjoy great pleasure!